Take What You Need Tuesday

Have you ever looked up and realized somebody was trying to compete with you and you didn’t even know it was a competition? 😭

That happens to me all the time, but honestly, I take it as a compliment because I’m too focused on becoming a better version of myself to focus on anything else. The only person I’m trying to outgrow is who I was yesterday and who I was last year.

I genuinely feel like when you focus on yourself, work on yourself, heal, level up, and start seeing results, you stop obsessing over everything around you. You stop caring about opinions. You stop moving off validation. You start living your life with free will and that’s where peace comes from.

Please stop living a life other people want you to live while they sit around doing whatever they wanna do anyway. If you don’t like your life, change it step by step, day by day. It doesn’t happen overnight, but if you put the work in, I promise it’ll start giving back to you.

This week has honestly been peaceful for me. I’ve been intentional, staying out the way, protecting my energy, and trying not to fall into a funk because depression definitely tries to attach itself to me sometimes. But one thing about me, I fight back every single time.

I’m also getting to a point where I only wanna be around people on the same frequency as me. I’m done forcing relationships, forcing vibes, and forcing connections that don’t naturally fit my lifestyle. Every weekend doesn’t have to be the club. Sometimes I wanna work out, go on walks, hit a fitness class, lock into my goals, or just protect my peace. And no shade to anybody who likes something different because babes, free will 😭 do what makes YOU happy.

But this summer, I really want y’all outside doing things that pour back into you. Hit the fitness classes. Try the wellness events. Go to the walks, the hobbies, the self care events, all of it. Your older self is going to thank you later.

Also, don’t forget my event is coming up July 3rd 👀 We’ll have two workout sessions, a live DJ, food, giveaways, a certified instructor, and a $300 twerking contest after both classes 😭 And yes, you are definitely going to be sore the next day.

The event is completely FREE, but you do have to register through the website or DM me on Facebook or Instagram.

And for the girls wanting more on the website, let me know what y’all wanna see because I’m always adding new things for the girls who get it ✨

So at the end of the day, stop worrying about everything going on around you and start pouring into YOU. The moment you tap into yourself, protect your peace, focus on your goals, and move at your own pace, life starts feeling different. Clearer. Softer. More intentional. Everybody’s journey is different, so stop letting outside noise distract you from becoming the version of yourself you’ve been praying for.

What’s one thing you’re focusing on changing or improving about yourself this summer? 👀 Drop it in the comments. Let’s motivate each other.